Vessa: Relationship Clarity
Farhan Khera Lifestyle iPhoneiPadiPod touch
Vessa: Relationship Clarity is a free Lifestyle app for iPhone and iPad by Farhan Khera. Requires iOS 16.4. Updated October 22, 2026.
- Price
- Free
- on the App Store
- Size
- 59 MB
- Age 17+
- Updated
- Oct 22
- 2026 · v1.12
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About Vessa: Relationship Clarity
The Vessa app was specifically designed as a platform to bring you closer to the one you love. Our system enables you to show up better for your partner, understand who you are in a relationship, and give you clarity in your relationship. This enables you to approach your relationship with the intentionality and care that it deserves. Falling for someone is the easy part. What comes after — the not-knowing, the second-guessing, the quiet 11pm question of whether this is right — you mostly face alone. The people closest to you are too biased to be honest. The internet doesn't know your story. And you can't see your own relationship clearly from inside it. Vessa is the clear-eyed perspective that's been missing. It comes to understand your relationship — its history, its patterns, the things you can't see — and helps you tell what's real: what to build on, what to let go of, what's just a normal hard season dressed up as a dead end. It won't tell you what to do. It helps you see clearly enough to know. HOW IT WORKS The Mirror. One picture of who you are in a relationship, gathered from everything you've said. Something to think against. It evolves as Vessa understands more of you. Reflective space: work out what they meant, get ready for a conversation you're dreading. Talk something through at the hour you'd otherwise be spiraling alone. Little things: Their coffee order, the friend they're worried about, the thing they keep mentioning. Kept privately, and quietly put to work. Regular action pulses: A reminder tells you a date. Vessa arrives ahead of the moment with what you already noticed and enables you to easily act against it. Date plans: They land on Sunday, built from what you've both said you love. Open one and it already has a shape ready to mold into the perfect experience. Home. The three most useful things you could do right now for your relationship. WHAT'S YOURS STAYS YOURS Almost all of Vessa is private to you. Invite your partner and they get their own private side. Nothing you've written becomes theirs to read. One page in the middle is the part you both see, and it's the only part. Your relationship is not a product. Vessa does not sell your data or share it. There is no advertising here and no data-monetization business underneath this. You can see what Vessa knows about you, correct it, export it, or delete it — from inside the app, whenever you want. Love, with your eyes open.
What’s new
Version 1.12 · Updated October 22, 2026
Very minor bug fixes!
App privacy
The developer, Farhan Khera, reported these privacy practices to Apple.
Data Linked to You
The following data, which may be collected and linked to your identity, may be used for the following purposes:
- Location: Coarse Location
- Contact Info: Email Address, Name
- User Content: Audio Data, Customer Support, Other User Content
- Identifiers: User ID
- Usage Data: Product Interaction
- Sensitive Info: Sensitive Info
- Diagnostics: Crash Data, Performance Data, Other Diagnostic Data
- Other Data: Other Data Types
Used for: App Functionality
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|---|---|---|---|---|
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