REF: Dating Coach
STOCKTON CHANDLER MCCLELLAN Lifestyle iPhoneiPadiPod touch
REF: Dating Coach is a free Lifestyle app for iPhone and iPad by STOCKTON CHANDLER MCCLELLAN. Rated 5.0/5 from 4 ratings. Requires iOS 15.0.
- Rating
- 5.0
- 4 ratings
- Price
- Free
- on the App Store
- Size
- 31 MB
- Age 17+
- Updated
- Oct 22
- 2026 · v1.0.4
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About REF: Dating Coach
REF is an AI dating coach that helps you improve your conversations, your dating profile and your confidence. Stuck on what to say? Need a better opener? Want honest feedback on how your profile comes across, or a place to practice without pressure? REF gives you personalized guidance so you get better at it yourself. REF KEYBOARD Use REF anywhere, instantly. Switch to the REF Keyboard in any messaging or dating app, tap Coaching to get suggestions from a screenshot of your conversation, or tap Icebreakers for an opener, then send it without leaving the chat. Typing works without Full Access; Coaching and Icebreakers in the keyboard need Full Access and an Elite plan. REAL-TIME COACHING Not sure what to say next? Share the conversation and REF reads what is going on, then gives you three confident lines to choose from, each with a short reason why. ICEBREAKERS Witty, memorable openers that help your first message stand out. Copy one with a tap. PRACTICE Train with realistic scenarios, write your own replies and get scored feedback. Earn XP, level up and build streaks as your skills grow. PROFILE REVIEW Get AI feedback on your dating profile's presentation and photography: photo selection, composition, variety and clear ways to improve. REF does not rate physical attractiveness. REF is not here to talk for you. It helps you communicate better and feel more confident doing it yourself. SUBSCRIPTIONS REF offers weekly auto-renewing subscriptions: - Elite: unlimited Coaching and Practice, Icebreakers, Profile Review and the REF Keyboard - Basic: 10 Coaching and 10 Practice per week, plus Icebreakers Eligible new subscribers can start with a 3-day free trial. Payment is charged to your Apple ID when you confirm the purchase, or when the free trial ends. Subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in your App Store account settings. REF is for adults 18 and over. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
What’s new
Version 1.0.4 · Updated October 22, 2026
Brand new intro that shows you exactly how REF works. REF Keyboard now stays signed in and tells you exactly what to fix if something is off. Smoother feel throughout, with richer haptics. Bug fixes and performance improvements.
App privacy
The developer, STOCKTON CHANDLER MCCLELLAN, reported these privacy practices to Apple.
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
- Purchases: Purchase History
- Identifiers: Device ID
- Usage Data: Product Interaction
Data Linked to You
The following data, which may be collected and linked to your identity, may be used for the following purposes:
- Purchases: Purchase History
- Identifiers: Device ID, User ID
- Usage Data: Product Interaction
- Contact Info: Email Address
- User Content: Photos or Videos, Other User Content
Used for: Developer’s Advertising or Marketing, App Functionality
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