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About Deescalate: Hard Conversations

Say what you mean — in a way the other person can actually hear it. The text from your ex. The one from your co-parent about the pickup time. The one from your teen. Tension makes us say things the other person can't receive. Deescalate rephrases your raw message into language that lands — without changing what you need. Type (or speak) what you want to say, pick who you are and who you're talking to, and get back a softened version plus a one-line "why." TWO WAYS TO USE IT • Say it better — soften something before you send it. • Help me respond — understand what a message you received really means, and get a ready-to-send reply. BUILT FOR REAL RELATIONSHIPS Every listener decodes differently, so Deescalate re-encodes the same intent for the person in front of you: a partner, an ex, a teen, a toddler, a parent, a sibling, a roommate, a friend, a boss, a coworker, a landlord, customer service — even your dog. Pick any pairing. WHEN IT HELPS • The text you've rewritten five times and still haven't sent • Setting a boundary without starting a fight • Apologizing so it's actually heard • Hard conversations with family, partners, coworkers, and exes WOVEN INTO iOS • Ask Siri or run a Shortcut: "Soften this with Deescalate." • A Focus Filter opens Deescalate already set to the right relationship — Work to your boss, Personal to your partner. • A Home Screen widget and a Control Center button put it one tap away. • Share any message from Mail, Messages, or Safari and get it rewritten — without leaving the conversation. • Speak your message with on-device dictation, and have the result read aloud. PRIVATE BY DESIGN Your messages aren't stored and aren't used to train anything. Voice is transcribed on your device. No account required. No ads, no tracking. Deescalate is a communication aid — not therapy, counseling, or medical advice. SUBSCRIPTION Your first translations are free. For unlimited translations, subscribe monthly or yearly. The price is shown in the app and billed to your Apple ID at confirmation of purchase. Subscriptions renew automatically unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period; manage or cancel anytime in your Apple ID settings. Terms of Use (EULA): https://translatebetween.com/terms Privacy Policy: https://translatebetween.com/privacy

Ratings & reviews

5.0

8 ratings

5 ★ 100% 4 ★ 0% 3 ★ 0% 2 ★ 0% 1 ★ 0%

What’s new

Version 1.2 · Updated September 14, 2026

Shortcuts, the Home Screen widget, and Control Center now open Deescalate with exactly the pair you asked for. Previously, a Focus that switched on while the app was in the background could quietly override your choice. Plus small reliability fixes.

App privacy

The developer, ELLEN JEANNE ESCARCEGA, reported these privacy practices to Apple.

Data Not Linked to You

The following data, which may be collected but is not linked to your identity, may be used for the following purposes:

  • Identifiers: Device ID

Used for: App Functionality

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