Valence: What's My Ex Thinking
Furkan Dogan Lifestyle iPhoneiPadiPod touch
Valence: What's My Ex Thinking is a free Lifestyle app for iPhone and iPad by Furkan Dogan. Rated 5.0/5 from 1 ratings. Requires iOS 15.0.0.
- Rating
- 5.0
- 1 ratings
- Price
- Free
- on the App Store
- Size
- 50 MB
- Age 12+
- Updated
- Oct 19
- 2026 · v3.1.0
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About Valence: What's My Ex Thinking
Breakups run on their side too. Your ex moves through phases after it ends: relief, distraction, curiosity, comparison, quiet checking, the dip. Valence reads which phase they are in right now, from the day count and what they have actually done, and tells you what usually comes next. THEIR PHASE, TODAY Open the app and see where your ex most likely is: the phase, the day, what they are probably doing, and the one thing you do today. It updates every day. SOMETHING HAPPENED? GET THE READING They texted. They viewed your story. They went quiet. There is someone new. Tap it, add what they said, and you get a reading: what it means on their side, what changed, what to watch for, and your move. Every reading is built from your situation, not a template. THE STRATEGIST A coach that reads every text, story and silence with you. Paste a screenshot of their message and it tells you what it means and whether to answer. Ask "what do I say" and it writes the reply. It remembers your story, keeps you on no contact, and tells you plainly when a rare exception applies. THE TIMELINE Eleven phases, with day windows. See what your ex has already been through, what is likely next, and when. Everything you log stays on the timeline, with its reading. PREDICTIONS THAT GET CHECKED Each reading ends with a dated, pattern-based read of the next likely signal. When the day comes, Valence asks whether it happened. NO STREAKS, NO HOMEWORK No mood streaks, no journaling tasks, no therapy speak. Just their side, read plainly, and one clear move. HOW IT STARTS Five quick questions. You get your first reading. From then on, tap "Something happened" whenever they do something. PRIVACY No account, no email, no tracking, no ads. Your answers, logged events and coach conversations are stored so the coach can remember your story and so we can improve the first days of the app; you can delete everything from Settings at any time. Full policy: https://thevalenceapp.github.io/thevalence-privacy/ PRICING Weekly subscription with a 3-day free trial. Lifetime one-time purchase available. Subscriptions auto-renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Valence is built on patterns, not promises. It tells you what usually happens on their side and when, so you stop guessing and stop reaching. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
What’s new
Version 3.1.0 · Updated October 19, 2026
What's new in 3.1 - Not just breakups: pick your situation. It ended, you're together but something's off, you're still in touch for kids or a shared home, or it was never official. - Before you send: see how a message will likely land on their side before you send it. - Where it's heading: what keeps it open and what works against it, at a glance. - A rebuilt Strategist that remembers your story and stays focused on your goal. - A cleaner home screen and many fixes.
App privacy
The developer, Furkan Dogan, reported these privacy practices to Apple.
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
- Purchases: Purchase History
- Identifiers: Device ID
- Usage Data: Product Interaction
Data Linked to You
The following data, which may be collected and linked to your identity, may be used for the following purposes:
- Purchases: Purchase History
- Identifiers: Device ID, User ID
- Usage Data: Product Interaction
- Location: Coarse Location
- Contact Info: Name
Used for: Developer’s Advertising or Marketing, Analytics, Product Personalization, App Functionality
Data Not Linked to You
The following data, which may be collected but is not linked to your identity, may be used for the following purposes:
- User Content: Other User Content, Photos or Videos, Audio Data
- Diagnostics: Crash Data, Performance Data
- Usage Data: Other Usage Data
Used for: Analytics, Product Personalization, App Functionality
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