Tend - Outreach

Matthew Wolff Lifestyle iPhoneiPadiPod touch

Tend - Outreach is a free Lifestyle app for iPhone and iPad by Matthew Wolff. Requires iOS 15.1. Updated July 29, 2026.

Price: Free; on the App Store
Size: 50 MB; Age 4+
Updated: Jul 29; 2026 · v1.1

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About Tend - Outreach

Tend is a personal relationship manager designed for people who care deeply about their friendships but struggle to keep up. Set a frequency for each friend, and Tend will remind you when it's time to reach out. STAY CONNECTED, YOUR WAY • Set custom reach-out frequencies for each friend (every few days, weekly, monthly) • Get gentle reminders when someone is overdue for a catch-up • Log connections quickly — calls, texts, dinners, hangouts RELATIONSHIP CIRCLES • Friends are automatically organized into tiers based on how often you connect • See at a glance who needs attention and who you're keeping up with • Track your connection patterns over time SMART FEATURES • Import friends from your contacts • Sync logged connections to your iOS calendar • Birthday reminders so you never miss one • Transit time to a friend's location • Ask AI natural language questions about your connection history PRIVACY FIRST • All data stored locally on your device by default • Optional encrypted cloud backup • No ads, no tracking, no data selling • Delete everything at any time Built for people with ADHD and anyone who wants to be more intentional about maintaining the relationships that matter most.

What’s new

Version 1.1 · Updated July 29, 2026

What's new since 1.0 Insights / Analytics - A dedicated Insights tab (promoted out of a sub-screen). - AI data explorer ("Ask AI") — natural-language questions about your relationships, backed by multi-provider LLM support (Gemini default). - A wave of new visualizations: Social Health radar with tap-to-detail, network graph, tier donut, stacked-area activity-by-tier, leaderboard with swipeable categories, plus streak / effort-balance / prime-time cards. Calendar search - A full Calendar Search screen: free-text across friends, venues, types, and notes; field-scoped syntax (friend:, venue:, type:); people/type/date-range filters; recent searches; hybrid relevance×recency ranking. Friends & relationships - Pause reminders — pause a friend so they drop out of reminders (this is the feature we just spent the session hardening). - Life Events on friend profiles (#39). - Learned associations — the app notices which friends you see together and suggests linking them, with a post-save prompt. - Customizable contact-row appearance (#36) and in-app contact search when adding friends. Home screen - Homework / "Needs Attention" surface (#31) for relationships that need action. - Take a Break — shift due dates forward when you're overloaded, with undo. - Spread overdue friends across a window; Focus mode (tier-filtered Next Due); tappable overdue/this-week stats; pull-to-refresh; uncapped list browsing. Connections & calendar - Dopamine celebration animation when you log a connection (#38). - Venue capture from Places, passed through to the iOS Calendar as a real structured location. Notifications & wellbeing - Reminder-time picker + native iOS notification grouping (#37). - Social Energy — density-aware pacing with configurable recovery blocks. Settings & polish - Settings reorganized into Account / Data / Integrations / Personalization screens; compact identity row with Rate/Support; copyable user ID; Privacy Policy link; redesigned "How Tend Works" as collapsible tips; plus discovery hints that teach hidden gestures (long-press, swipe) one-shot.

App privacy

The developer, Matthew Wolff, reported these privacy practices to Apple.

Data Linked to You

The following data, which may be collected and linked to your identity, may be used for the following purposes:

Location: Precise Location
Contact Info: Physical Address, Email Address, Name, Phone Number
Contacts: Contacts
Identifiers: User ID
Usage Data: Product Interaction
Diagnostics: Crash Data, Performance Data, Other Diagnostic Data

Used for: App Functionality

App details

Tend - Outreach is a free Lifestyle app for iPhone, iPad and iPod touch, developed by Matthew Wolff. It requires iOS 15.1 or later and is 50 MB to download. It was first released on June 15, 2026 and last updated on July 29, 2026.

Category: Lifestyle
Price: Free
Version: 1.1
Size: 50 MB
Requires: iOS 15.1 or later
Compatibility: iPhone, iPad, iPod touch
Languages: English
Age rating: 4+
Released: June 15, 2026
Last updated: July 29, 2026
Developer: Matthew Wolff

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